“We had a great meeting this weekend with Dr. Wendy Treynor teaching us why some people are happy making others unhappy, and sharing her beautiful theory of identity shift and peer pressure. So fun!”

“The I CAN HEAL® Retreat I attended this weekend is worth more money than anyone could pay.

It is a treasure beyond measure, worth millions of dollars to the seeker of Truth.

It has transformed my perception of how to be me (to the world and to myself).

I see the logical, mathematical, linear thinking that Wendy presents as emanating from her math background.

Her unspoken objective of linking math and psychology is evident in her presentation, taking the “woo woo” out of spirituality and psychology, as well.

Linking the temporal to the eternal, the social to the non-social, is simple but deep and vast in its implications.

The experience has been a salving balm to my lifelong emotional wounds.

Now I see the logic of what I know to be Truth.

Wendy’s presentation made in her own effervescence validates, confirms, substantiates who, what, whose I am and have been.

She gave me courage and commitment this weekend.

Thank you for the treasures you unearthed, for the light you reveal.”

-Trisha Brick, MSW from USC, Credentialed Teacher, Cognitive Transactional Analyst

“You have truly inspired me. Your love, joy and kindness. They are like divine energy showered on us. Please do continue with your work and spreading your message for it is a gift from God. The framework, the step-by-step knowledge and wisdom is going to be such a uplifting to human being. And I pray to God that wherever you go, you will shine like a thousand stars and your essence of being, your divinity, will heal and help those people in need.”

“I really like this framework which helps us to understand the root cause of why we are not happy even when we have a lot already. It’s great to know a solution exists that could lead us to a happier and more fulfilling life.”

“An amazing integration of classic and current social psychological theories. This book is a tremendous primer for anyone interested in understanding the underlying motives behind human behavior and social interaction.”

-John Tauer, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, University of St. Thomas

“Dr. Treynor’s work integrates across an amazing spectrum of theory to provide new views about social psychology.”

–Adam B. Cohen, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology, Arizona State University

“I enjoyed the whole session and I am quite amazed with the framework you used to structure your findings, experience, and wisdom. Most importantly, the non-stop joy and happiness you pour to everyone from the bottom of your heart is the essence that allows people to open, and transform. That’s your treasure. The treasure that helps others to find theirs.”

– Dio Chiu, Chief Operation Officer, TEDx Taipei

“Wendy is a dynamic and engaging speaker. With wit and warmth, she masterfully knows how to connect with a diverse audience with humor and the ability to tell a good story.”

Chaplain at The Taft School, Connecticut

“This beautiful book is a gift and therefore no surprise that its genesis is the truth of Wendy Treynor. I have never before read a book with such raw truth in it. Wendy is living proof that even cancer can be a gift, when we use it to discover and live once more as our TrueSelf. In doing so, we heal our lives.”

– Derek Mills (The StandardsGuy®), Author of the BESTSELLING BOOK The 10-Second Philosophy®. Creator of the StandardsRevolution(TM)

“Wendy Treynor has written a wise, deep, touching, and funny meditation upon her experience with cancer.

This is an honest and uplifting book, one that will empower and enlighten you.”

-Dacher Keltner, Professor of Psychology, UC Berkeley

Author of Born To Be Good:The Science of a Meaningful Life

“It was fabulous….Superb!”

-Meredith Grenier, Journalist, The Daily Breeze

“…Wendy is an electric speaker.”

-Pat Johnson, Pat Johnson Studios

“Delightful, insightful and expertly & lovingly presented.”

-Paula Anding, Mrs, Coast Lighting South Bay

“THE VISUALS, AND PERSONAL STORIES[,] ARE AMAZING….FANTASTIC AND EMPOWERING!”

-Emanuel Zevallos, CEO, Interactive Live

“Brilliant[.] Excellent. Powerful. Compassionate[.]”

-Lisa Hasham, Social Worker, M.S.W.

-Denise Pope, Property Administrator, Raytheon

“Here comes a female bodhisattva [“wisdom being”] about to go planetary….”

-Charles Vincent Davis, Representative A.T.O.M.

“One of the most inspiring, loving, and life-changing speeches I have had the honor of

attending and taking into my [heart]…”

“… her enthusiasm and vivacity are amazing.”

“…[S]he lifted my inner being! .…[Wendy has a] gift .…great enthusiasm, energy, it’s contagious”

“You are a rock star. You made me smile, cry, and gave me a positive way to look at things[.]”

“Fantastic! Thank you for this amazing experience”

“Wendy is pure joy.”

“Wonderful, Positive Energy A Bright, Timely Message”

“Wendy is a bright light with a beautiful mission, energy, & presence” -Ruby Love

“…I liked the new way of looking at life….Refreshing, good solid message, great presentation, non-pretentious, fun & playful” -Premdev Kaur, We Love Yoga