The Planning of Sexual Intercourse Among Men with Erectile Dysfunction: Insights from China, Japan, and Taiwan



Introduction

Erectile dysfunction (ED) remains one of the most prevalent and consequential male sexual health conditions worldwide. Once a private affliction often endured in silence, ED has, in the last three decades, become a major focus of both clinical and societal discourse. The advent of phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE-5) inhibitors revolutionized management, shifting the condition from a source of lifelong frustration to one that can often be reliably treated. Sildenafil, tadalafil, and vardenafil have been positioned not only as pharmacological interventions but as symbols of restored masculinity and intimate well-being. Yet, despite their efficacy, their use raises an intriguing and clinically relevant question: how spontaneous is sexual activity in men relying on ED medication?

A recent observational, cross-sectional survey conducted in China, Japan, and Taiwan offers rare insight into this dimension of men’s sexual lives. By exploring whether men plan their sexual encounters or pursue them spontaneously, the study highlights an often-overlooked aspect of ED management—behavioral alignment with pharmacotherapy. For physicians, this information is not a trivial curiosity; it is a critical element in tailoring treatment, ensuring adherence, and ultimately improving satisfaction for both patient and partner.

This article examines the key findings of that survey, situates them within broader medical understanding, and reflects on their implications for clinical practice. More than a report of numbers, this discussion is an invitation to appreciate the psychology, culture, and habits that shape male sexual health.


Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Beyond the Symptom

Erectile dysfunction is not merely the inability to achieve or maintain an erection; it is a condition that reverberates across physical, psychological, and relational domains. Epidemiological studies estimate that ED affects up to half of men aged 40–70, with prevalence rising steadily with age. In Asia, reported prevalence varies widely, from as low as 2% in some cohorts to nearly 90% in others, depending on methodology and cultural willingness to self-report.

The etiology of ED is multifactorial. Vascular disease, diabetes, hypertension, dyslipidemia, and prostate disorders represent common organic contributors. Psychological stressors, performance anxiety, and relationship dynamics play equally powerful roles. In Asia, cultural reluctance to discuss sexual dysfunction compounds the clinical burden, as many men delay seeking help, often turning to unregulated remedies before consulting a physician.

Against this complex backdrop, PDE-5 inhibitors emerged in the 1990s as a genuine breakthrough. By enhancing nitric oxide–mediated vasodilation in penile tissue, these agents restore erectile capacity in a large proportion of men. Yet their efficacy is not uniform; comorbidities such as metabolic syndrome and advanced cardiovascular disease can reduce responsiveness. Moreover, drug efficacy does not automatically translate into patient satisfaction. Timing, partner expectations, and sexual habits influence outcomes as much as pharmacology itself.

Thus, to understand the real-world effectiveness of ED medications, clinicians must look beyond the physiological mechanism and toward patient behavior. Are men using these drugs in line with their lifestyles? Do they fit seamlessly into intimate routines, or do they impose awkward scheduling? The survey of men in China, Japan, and Taiwan addresses these very questions.


The Survey: Methods and Population

The study was designed as an anonymous, online, cross-sectional survey. Between October and November 2015, men aged 40 to 70 from China, Japan, and Taiwan were recruited from an online panel. Eligibility required either a diagnosis of ED or reported use of a PDE-5 inhibitor within the previous three months. Importantly, participants were not initially told that the survey focused specifically on ED, minimizing selection bias.

A total of 604 men completed the questionnaire: 254 from China, 250 from Japan, and 100 from Taiwan. The mean age was 50.8 years, with Japanese participants notably older on average than their Chinese and Taiwanese counterparts. Comorbidities were common, with hypertension, high cholesterol, and prostate problems among the most frequently reported conditions. These data reflect a realistic cross-section of the clinical population.

The survey explored several dimensions:

  • Frequency of sexual intercourse
  • Use and timing of ED medications
  • Planning behaviors around sexual activity
  • Satisfaction with ED treatment

Responses were structured with categorical options, ensuring comparability across the sample. While not a clinical trial, the survey’s design offered a valuable window into everyday sexual behaviors in men managing ED.


Planning Versus Spontaneity: The Central Findings

Perhaps the most striking outcome was the high degree of planning reported. Across all participants, 84% acknowledged planning sexual intercourse in advance. Cultural differences were evident: 95% of Chinese men reported some form of planning, compared to 73% in Japan and 82% in Taiwan. This challenges the long-standing assumption that sexual activity must be spontaneous to be satisfying, at least for men who are managing ED.

Digging deeper, three-quarters of respondents admitted to planning specific occasions for sex. Nearly 60% planned intercourse on specific days of the week, and 52% even narrowed it down to times of day. In practical terms, this means that for many men, intimacy is penciled into their calendars alongside meetings and family commitments. Whether this reflects cultural discipline, medical necessity, or pragmatic partnership dynamics is open to interpretation—but the clinical implications are undeniable.

Timing of medication use was consistent with this pattern. Most men (94%) reported having sex within four hours of taking their ED medication. The majority initiated intercourse within one hour of dosing. This alignment suggests that men consciously integrate pharmacotherapy into their planning, ensuring optimal effectiveness of their chosen PDE-5 inhibitor.

These findings reveal a landscape where spontaneity is not the norm. Instead, ED management has ushered in a culture of preparation, coordination, and predictability in sexual behavior.


Frequency of Sexual Activity and Medication Use

The survey also explored how often men engaged in sexual intercourse and how frequently they used ED medication. Across the three territories, median intercourse frequency was three to five times per month, with minor variation by country and drug type. Medication use closely mirrored sexual activity, with men typically taking ED medication around four times per month.

Sildenafil was the most commonly used agent, reported by 73% of Chinese, 41% of Japanese, and 67% of Taiwanese respondents. Tadalafil and vardenafil use was also reported, often in combination or alternation with sildenafil. Such polypharmacy may reflect attempts to optimize outcomes, manage cost, or simply patient curiosity about different agents.

Interestingly, Japanese men reported slightly lower frequencies of both intercourse and medication use compared with Chinese and Taiwanese participants. This may be related to the older average age in the Japanese subgroup, as well as cultural attitudes toward sexuality in later life.

Overall, the data suggest that most men with ED in these regions are not engaging in frequent sexual activity. This has implications for treatment selection, as on-demand therapy may be more cost-effective than daily dosing in populations with relatively infrequent intercourse.


Satisfaction with ED Medications

Despite the planning and the medical complexities, satisfaction with ED medication was high. Across the cohort, more than 85% of men reported being “very” or “fairly” satisfied with their treatment. Key attributes driving satisfaction included:

  • Rigidity of erection (92% rated as important)
  • Speed of onset (89%)
  • Low incidence of side effects (88%)

These priorities align with clinical expectations: efficacy, reliability, and tolerability are the pillars of successful pharmacotherapy. Price and brand trust were considered important by fewer respondents, underscoring that effectiveness trumps marketing when it comes to intimate health.

Chinese men reported slightly higher levels of satisfaction compared with their Japanese and Taiwanese counterparts, particularly with sildenafil and tadalafil. Whether this reflects cultural expectations, healthcare accessibility, or pharmacogenetic differences remains speculative.

The overarching message is clear: when ED medication works as promised, men are not only relieved but genuinely content. This reinforces the importance of precise prescribing and patient education to ensure alignment between drug pharmacokinetics and patient behavior.


Clinical and Behavioral Implications

The study’s findings carry several lessons for clinicians managing ED:

First, counseling must go beyond pharmacology. Understanding a patient’s sexual habits—frequency, planning, partner expectations—can dramatically improve treatment selection. For the man who plans sex once a week, on-demand sildenafil may be perfectly adequate. For the man engaging in intercourse multiple times weekly without much forethought, low-dose daily tadalafil may offer greater convenience and spontaneity.

Second, comorbidities must be carefully considered. Hypertension, hyperlipidemia, diabetes, and prostate disorders were highly prevalent in this survey population. These conditions not only contribute to ED pathogenesis but may limit responsiveness to PDE-5 inhibitors. Addressing lifestyle factors, managing cardiovascular risk, and integrating partner involvement in counseling are essential components of comprehensive care.

Finally, patient education is critical. The survey revealed that many men, especially in China, relied on online information to guide medication use. This raises concerns about misuse, counterfeit drugs, and unsafe practices. Physicians must actively provide clear, trustworthy guidance to counter misinformation and protect patient safety.


Cultural Reflections on Sexual Planning

While the medical findings are valuable, the cultural observations are equally instructive. That nearly 60% of men admitted to scheduling sex by day or time suggests that intimacy in these regions is often a planned event rather than a spontaneous encounter. This may reflect cultural norms emphasizing order, duty, and structure. Alternatively, it may represent adaptation to the pharmacological requirements of ED treatment.

From a psychological perspective, planning may actually reduce anxiety and improve sexual performance in men with ED. By anticipating intercourse, men can align medication timing, manage comorbidities, and prepare mentally. What might appear as a loss of spontaneity could, in fact, be a gain in control and confidence.

Clinicians should be sensitive to these cultural dynamics. Rather than promoting a Western ideal of spontaneity, they should validate the acceptability of planned intimacy, recognizing that satisfaction and fulfillment are not diminished by forethought. Indeed, for many couples, predictability may enhance anticipation and mutual preparation.


Limitations of the Study

As with any observational survey, limitations must be acknowledged. The sample sizes, especially in Taiwan, were modest relative to the population. Recruitment through online panels may bias results toward men who are more comfortable with technology and self-reporting. Diagnosis of ED was based on self-report rather than validated clinical instruments such as the International Index of Erectile Function. Furthermore, only men were surveyed; partner perspectives were absent, leaving an incomplete picture of relational dynamics.

Nevertheless, the study’s anonymity and online design may have encouraged candor, especially in cultures where discussing sexual dysfunction remains stigmatized. As such, the data, while imperfect, provide valuable and rare insight into male sexual behavior in Asia.


Conclusion

The management of erectile dysfunction is more than a prescription; it is a negotiation between biology, behavior, and culture. This survey of men from China, Japan, and Taiwan demonstrates that most men with ED actively plan their sexual encounters, aligning their intimacy with the pharmacokinetics of PDE-5 inhibitors. Far from undermining satisfaction, this planning appears to support positive outcomes, with high levels of treatment satisfaction reported across the cohort.

For clinicians, the message is clear: success in ED treatment depends not only on selecting the right drug but on understanding the patient’s lifestyle, expectations, and cultural context. Counseling must address planning behaviors, frequency of intercourse, and comorbid conditions. Education must counter misinformation and emphasize safe, evidence-based use of medication.

Ultimately, whether spontaneous or planned, the goal remains the same: restoring sexual function, intimacy, and quality of life for men and their partners. The path to that goal is as individual as each patient—and sometimes, it is marked not by spontaneity but by preparation.


Frequently Asked Questions

1. Does planning sex reduce its satisfaction compared to spontaneous encounters?
Not necessarily. While Western ideals often celebrate spontaneity, planned intimacy can reduce anxiety, ensure proper medication timing, and foster mutual anticipation. For men with ED, planning often enhances confidence and performance.

2. How should doctors decide between daily versus on-demand ED medication?
The choice depends on sexual habits. Men engaging in sex less than twice per week may benefit from on-demand therapy. Those with more frequent or unpredictable activity may prefer daily low-dose treatment for convenience and spontaneity.

3. Can comorbid conditions like hypertension or diabetes affect ED treatment success?
Yes. Cardiovascular risk factors and metabolic disorders not only increase the risk of ED but can also reduce responsiveness to PDE-5 inhibitors. Managing these conditions through lifestyle changes and medical therapy is crucial for optimizing sexual health outcomes.